New era gives us multiple impacts. Besides a good impact, this era always give us a bad impact. For detail we can say that some aspect also more potentially approached to our children, mode also related to the growth of the basic fundamental on children’s mind. For example; children have a labile emotion, means that they can be easily to copy the character or action from other. They know or not, but surely it will makes a bad character.
Furthermore, in the stuck of problem is they are trying to disobey what the parents’ say. How they can disobey what the parents’ say? Children feel in the forced situation, because their parents too strict to organize children’s way. As we know that children have a children hood that makes them feel good. Why we shouldn’t give it to them? One side parents hope that their children will be a good person by giving them a best regulation. How if parents give unsuitable choice to them? This is the problem and the reason why their children try to disobey what the parents’ say. Some reason that make children disobey what the parents’ say are:
1)Broken home: some problem that occurred in the family member, children also touched the negative impact from it. Children feel lonely and may become a close person.
2)Friends: friends give more time to join and also will be the lantern for the children to solve their problem. If children have assume that friends are better than parents, they will hear the advice from friends and ignore the advice from parents.
3)Environment: the vital aspect that builds the character of children is environment. If the children accustomed join to the society which directly gives the false advice, they will be able to disobey their parents.
According to this case, the whole negative impact will create:
1)Children who have the egoism character
2)Bad attitude of children
3)Criminal children
I can solve these problems by doing some actions such as parents should give the good education, the good regulation, more attention, give the time for their children hood and children should get the socialize education.
So, I agree with this issue that children must always obey their parents’ order. To make a good condition and situation for the life of itself.
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